Top Suggestions for Women Considering Hiring a Professional Matchmaker

·         Get to know the matchmakers!

Start by Googling "exclusive matchmaker" or "executive matchmaker" plus the name of your city to find matchmakers in your area. Premier Match, VIP, Amy Laurent, Kelleher, and Selective Search are all high-end matchmakers or matching services that are popular in New York City and other major U.S. cities (in no particular order). Make a note of all the areas that capture your attention while Matchmaking Rancho Cordova. Don't be concerned about finding the "ideal" matchmaker; the purpose is to cast a wide net. Because you won't be paying any of them, it costs you nothing to contact anyone who appears to be a suitable fit.

·         "Women are free."

Certain matching agencies may try to charge enquiring ladies for their services. While this may work well for certain women, in my experience, I have never (not once) heard of a female customer who was satisfied with the results of paid matching. While the precise reasons for these women's displeasure may differ, I sense that women who are drawn to conventional men with traditional values also prefer traditional dating, in which the guy often pays for early stage dates.

·         Keep a list of your "stock responses" in a spreadsheet.

All matchmakers want to learn as much as they can about their prospective customers so that they can adapt their services to you! Many matchmakers may ask the same or similar questions on their applications ("What sort of man are you seeking?" "What are your deal breakers?"), so keep a spreadsheet with your application "stock responses" to save time and avoid "reinventing the wheel" each time you meet a new matchmaker.